SERENDIPITY - Part I

Tracey E writes:

"There's no doubt that women everywhere suffer from varying degrees of low self-esteem. It doesn't matter if you are an African tribeswoman or a member of the European upper-crust; if you're an up and coming Olympian swimmer or just the kid around the corner, low self-esteem will hit you at sometimes. And for the Australian woman it is no different. She may be financially independent, she may be holding down a satisfying and well rewarding job, she may be young, she may be older, she may even be thin or fat. Low self-esteem will impact upon her life, and influence how she feels about herself and how she sees herself in the big picture. As a woman well endowed with size and shape, I had for many years foolishly thought my low self-esteem was because I was: (a) stupid and (b) I was fat. I questioned myself for years, and I still came to the conclusion that I must be stupid because I hadn't any friends. As an adult and based on a more adult perspective of life, this belief lived with me and was reinforced in my self feelings. "I must be stupid because I had a bad marriage, and I must be stupid because I'm not happy." I tended to be a "loner" mainly because people overlooked me or treated me as a bit of a puzzle or even a joke."

.....© 2010 Tracey E, Australia

To be continued ....

What was it that Pavarotti said?

"The reason fat people are happy is because their nerves are protected!"

SARONG (SAR-wrong?) SAR-right!

What is the one piece of clothing most backpackers carry when they travel? If you guessed a sarong, you're right.

What is so useful about a piece of rectangular fabric? For the uninitiated, the sarong has many uses.

As a piece of clothing, it is versatile. As a dress, simply tie it at the front and above the chest. As a skirt, it can be fastened around the waist. It is especially convenient as a cover when returning from the beach or as a bathrobe when going to or from a shower. For those with some skill, the sarong can be converted into a pair of shorts and a top.

Even if you are not wearing the sarong during a day's sightseeing, keep it in your bag. Many religious sites require visitors to cover their arms/legs. Simply pull it out of your bag, wrap it around the body, and you will save any embarrassment for yourself and the officials of the religious site.

Travellers have been finding many other practical uses for the sarong. One is to use it as a towel. (Not that I'd suggest you use one if you are travelling or visiting the snowfields!) They are a great replacement for towels on the beach or even in general showering. Normal towels are heavy, take a long while to dry, and take up precious space in a pack.

The sarong is lightweight, dries in a short time and can be rolled down into a tiny bundle.

The sarong is great for the beach as it also acts as a sun protector. I tend to use it as a shawl when my shoulders start to get pink from the sun. It's light fabric protects from the harsh rays but allows your skin to breathe.

As an item to be used in your bedroom, the sarong has myriad uses. Put a sarong over a window to block out the morning sun or the lights shining on. If you are visiting, and have to spend a night on a sofa, the sarong makes a great sheet.

Other practical uses include that of tablecloth, picnic rug or a makeshift bag. A little creativity on your part will most probably come up with some additional uses in an emergency.

This simple piece of clothing, which can be bought for a few dollars (after all it is only a straight length of fabric!) is one of travellings essential items. Don't leave without it.

Sarongs are one of the most under-rated garments for the size 6 plus. It's practical, it's comfortable, it looks good, it can be worn dressed up or dressed down. If you want a garment to "disguise" your body, it's perfect, if you want to show off your figure, it's just as perfect.

It's an all season garment - NOT merely for the warmer months. If you haven't tried one, then do so, and you'll most certainly be hooked.

© Autumn Parry, Australia